Are you familiar with the Attraction Model of living?

Essentially, it means that when you live your life with very specific intention, and in integrity with that intention, then you will attract to you what it is that you are intending.

Being intentional means to be clear and specific about what it is that you want. It also means to be purposeful and to live on purpose.

Having integrity means being congruent with that intention, and it is your walk matching your talk. Your walk in this case means going into action, which is also the last five letters of attrACTION.

Yes, you will have to go into action to get what you want.

Want to start or add to a business, start a new relationship or enhance an existing one, or add to your personal growth?

Regardless of what It is, It will happen if you follow this formula, and only if you go into action.

Start by getting clear about what you want. Write down specifically your goals and objectives. Make a time line that directs you to take actions steps. Know exactly what your intention is.

Then put the action into the attraction.

If you are passive, you will get passive results.

Push the luck factor. Someone (I think it was Oprah) once said, Luck is when preparation meets opportunity. Be prepared with your intention and create more opportunities.

In fact, the more opportunities you create and follow-through with, the more results you will attain. That is all about staying in the ACTION.

Use your support system to help you. Ask them to hold you accountable to your commitments and goals.

Use the expertise of your life coach to help you get clear about your intentions, and to help you be accountable as well.

If you feel uncomfortable, insecure, vulnerable, or weird, know that you are most likely right on target.

In order to get anything new, you have to create new strategies, approaches, and systems. Most anything new might feel strange until you get used to it

So, live the ATTR-ACTION model of life. Remember, there is very little ATTR-ACTION without the ACTION. Be a magnet and draw towards you all your dreams of the most fulfilling life possible...and then go into ACTION!

Ken Donaldson

Ken Donaldson, the REALationship Coach, has been based in Tampa Bay, Florida offering counseling, coaching, and educational programs since 1987. He is a licensed mental health counselor; board certified as an addictions professional and clinical hypnotherapist; and certified as a master relationship coach. Ken is a graduate of the University of South Florida, the Institute for Life Coach Training and the Relationship Coaching Institute. He has been exclusively in private practice since 1993.

Ken is the author of the new breakthrough life and relationship success book Marry YourSelf First! Saying “I Do” to a Life of Passion, Power and Purpose. The material in this book is a result of Donaldson’s 15+ years of clinical counseling and coaching with thousands of individuals and couples. In this book, he reveals what he has discovered as the 20 core Principles of Passion, Power and Purpose. When these principles are applied to your life you can overcome self-limiting patterns and create abundant happiness, fulfillment and success in your life and relationships.

Donaldson’s primary message from this book is to “Master Your Life and Your Relationships!” Purchasers of this book are eligible for free coaching and educational programs to support and promote optimal growth and success.

Ken founded the REALationship Coaching programs empower people to have more successful lives, businesses and relationships by building a powerful relationship with themselves first.

Included are the monthly Saturday Series workshops and the REAL Talk Forums. These programs are for couples and individuals alike, and help the participants live the most passionate and balanced lives possible.

He also facilitates the Marry YourSelf First program that assists singles to have more successful relationships and more satisfying lives. The graduates of this program leave with a clear vision of who they are, what they want, and how to get it.

In addition, he offers the Partners for Life programs for both pre-committed and committed couples that provide the tools and resources to help couples create relationships that are both lasting and fulfilling. Couples report that they have deeper intimacy and more fun as a result of utilizing the tools from these programs.

Ken also offers education and training programs for businesses and community organizations on a variety of personal growth and business improvement topics.